…and i’m very disappointed with a guy (shall i say man?), who is in love in me (he said so) and vice versa because of stupid media called Skype and misunderstandings in commnication: bad argument where i wasn’t understood at all, and I was blame due to limitations of digital stupid media , and lingering on his different lifestyle from mine, so i feel bad -not the first time, very upset. I was too much tollerating, although the guy is good, but cannot do it anymore. I cannot , i cannot be upset anymore, cannot wait and wait anymore, had very shitty day during the day then all this private thing added more to feel upset and bad instead of to feel great and i do not deserve tears.
My heart is broken, and i shall functinate tomorrow, i am out of my self, and the guy was one state far(away) from mine, and seemed close ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,im broken.
February 21, 2007 at 2:27 am
move on, theres over 100 billion fishes in the sea
February 21, 2007 at 7:03 pm
i do not care about the ‘fishes’, i want the ’shark’ in positive sense. jellyfish is overrated, and i am confused: does the personal and /or love life has to suffer beacuse of (both) too scheduled and busy time + not synchronized lifestyles? shall one compromise all the time or there is some way of having communication and make things work?
* starfish : )
February 21, 2007 at 10:26 pm
communication is important, but communication only succeeds when respect and understanding of words being used to communicate is accepted as part of your personality.
it is tough sometimes, I am deaf so I can’t use the phone to talk because I can’t hear so I do not have the luxury of dialing up a number.
if communication is based on timing availability, then it shouldn’t be restricted to a schedule, email and text messaging has freed up time outside of the usual “talk to you at 8 p.m.” comment. Instant messaging helps when both people have the time to talk together.
However with the real world outside the four walls of our rooms, it can be tough to stay in touch on the go but wireless is starting to breakdown those walls.
I myself am connected via wireless, nationwide coverage so it is easy to stay in touch on the go but it still is not the same as a live conversation. But I am often reminded, it is a lot easier than having to go somewhere and log online, and at the least gives me an opportunity where a phone can’t. Blackberries and Pocket PCs are paving the way for future.
February 21, 2007 at 10:41 pm
I totally agree with you on the first part you said on communication, but as a medium – digital one / considering communication with your beloved ones or the one you want to see -it is limited. I am involved into ICT’s industry -you have seen my headline, but then I’d rather prefer to see the person alive or talk over the phone, Skype, whatever. With your ‘limitations’ in communication – I wouldn’t say like that as many people who are lack in one of the senses have such great intuition on some other senses that most people doesnot have (and of course there are devices that can help you), but what I wanted to say here is for you: text messeging, IM’s, emails, chat etc is great -for me as well – I adore written word, really! But, when it comes to people you saw, you know in some way it is hard when you are e.g. 300 miles away (this is Europe
, and then even now, that other person cannot or won’t find time during the day just to give you a minute or 5 minute call to hear you (instead sending email or IM). I am advocating: if someone is really into you and cares that much about you, that person will try any, any way to contact you by voice, or visit you if possible. I am affraid that all the gadgets that you mentioned (and I am using them as a geek girl, pardon, young woman), are only isolating us and making distance when communication ‘face to face’ is much valued. ..
I do not know, I am still a bit disappointed and down – I can tolerate all the business and hard work (as I work really hard during the day and very tired when I come home), but I would always call or initiate the contact if I really do care for that person.
In this case, I am suspicious that the other side have ‘job’ priority ‘over’ me.
And this is very common and this is called: using humanity…
*disappointed.